So you aren’t satisfied to where you have landed in this stage of your life. Every night you’re beating yourself up and say to yourself ”what am i doing with my life?” You huff, You puff and toss from side by side. You grab your phone and start opening ChatGPT… and type… ”Chat help me out with my life.”
Sounds familiar?
Girl…….I hear you.
But let’ s be realistic, what does that actually do? How does the beating help? How does bothering ChatGPT even help? Not much right? So, instead of beating yourself up with depression, let’s get you in the right state of mind. As you probably know your mindset is the most important aspect of your wellbeing. We need to get your mindset in healthy position so it can have more room for positivity and structure. That is why here at the pretty organized life we aim for healthy mindset that delivers quality of life.
Here are 5 things you can do to bet on yourself without fail and make changes.
What is it that you want?
To avoid any confusion along the way, it is vital to know what it is what you want. What is your goal? Where do you see yourself in the next three months, six months and in a y ear? What is it that you want from that period of time? What is it you want to achieve/accomplish?
Be very clear, be very specific. The more specific you are the more clarity you will have along the way.
And only then you add a timeline to it.
Romanticizing
I know this word is so overused on the online world. But for a really good reason. I see romanticizing same as when you were little and used to romanticize how your big grown adult life will be like. What it would be like to marry your prince charming, or to have 1 million dollar money. How your life would be sooooooooooo amazing, freeing and nothing but JOY.
Get back in your childlike mind and romanticize your life again. Romanticize what it would be like to achieve your goal. Romanticize how much impact it would have on you and on others. Romanticize how much happiness and joy you will experience.
Dream like a child again babes! It is the purest form of dreaming, and a way to bet on yourself ;).
Create urgency
Most times when we have a goal or an idea, its been sitting there waiting to come into fruition. Hence why all these late nights depression, bothering chatgpt to sort YOUR life out. But here is the thing, in order to make sure you are betting on yourself there has to be a sense of urgency on your end. You need to act as if it depends your life. Sense of urgency is the quickest way to get anything done. So act like your rent is due, or you are about to lose your oxygen.
You can’t keep asking chatgpt for same ol strategy and plans for you. If your goal is to to bet on yourself , it is you who needs to be in active motion to make it happen.
There are billions of us with the same goal and ideas, if they are doing it so can you. ESPECIALLY YOU!
Instill fear with positive outcome
I don’t know what your goals are, but i do know some of us are sitting on goldmine that could be life changing to mankind. What if you died today and you were never able to make it happen? Then what?
Surround and expose yourself with right people and spaces
The easiest and quickest way to get you from depleted to thriving is exposing yourself to places and people.
Surrounding yourself with people who have what you want is easiest to achieve your goal . It doesn’t even have to be the exact same thing. Just being around the nicest places is good enough to get your act together. The energy that hangs around certain places and people is an experience to have.
High performers are special kind of people, the only that made them difference is their action. This is something you can also do and become. They are clear with what they trying to achieve, have the vision, create the sense of urgency and surround themselves like minded people. Doing all these things are sure way to bet on yourself without a fail.
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